TOLEDO – As a kid, Kyle Carpenter wanted to be a superhero – insisting that his dad draw the Superman logo on his chest, in permanent marker, as soon as the prior one faded.
“I was fearless, restless, reckless, relentless,” he says of his young self in his 2019 book, You Are Worth It, Building a Life Worth Fighting For.
When he was in high school, Carpenter heard Marine veteran Clebe McClary, who – despite losing an eye and part of his arm from a grenade in Vietnam – ran a nonprofit to help military families. The teenager was impressed not by the battles McClary fought, but by the aging man’s spirit and how someone who had been through so much could create an incredible life “not only in spite of, but because of his experiences.”
“I had no idea what life was going to throw at me, but I knew that I wanted to meet whatever challenges came my way with the same grace, determination and passion as Clebe,” Carpenter shared in his book.
Life had a lot of surprises for Carpenter, who joined the Marines in January 2009 and, in the fall of 2010, was serving as an automatic rifleman with Company F, 2nd Battalion, 9th Marines in Helmand Province, Afghanistan, in support of Operating Enduring Freedom. Just a few months later, he was on a rooftop with his best friend, Marine Nick Eufrazio, when grenades began landing in the compound where his unit was stationed.
“The last thing I remember clearly is laughing with Nick before starting to move toward something,” he wrote.
That “something” was a grenade that he dove on top of, saving Eufrazio’s life. It was an action that earned Carpenter the Medal of Honor four years later.
“Nobody goes into a battle with the goal of receiving a medal for valor, much less the Medal of Honor. No one hopes that their squad or their buddies end up in such a perilous situation that trying to save lives becomes necessary. The Medal of Honor is not something people seek, plain and simple,” Carpenter said.

In his memoir, Carpenter shares how he rebuilt his life in the aftermath of that incident – the the loss of an eye, reconstruction of his jaw and arm, dozens of surgeries and chronic pain – into a one of determination, gratefulness and even joy. Not only did he survive, but Carpenter learned to thrive, earning his. B.A. from South Carolina University, running marathons and speaking to groups around the world. Through it all, he has remained in awe of the support he’s received from his fellow Marines, veterans organizations, medical personnel and complete strangers. Even “Bobby from Pakistan,” the Uber driver who wanted to know Carpenter’s story, then thanked him for his service.
“That day, on the way to the airport, I responded as I never had before. I replied, ‘You’re worth it,'” Carpenter shared in the book. “In that moment, I wanted him to know that his family, his freedom, his rights, just the simple fact that he was a human being, meant that he was worth sacrificing for…and that’s what I have come to realize serving in the military means to me.”
As he reflected on what he said, “You’re worth it,” Carpenter has repeated that phrase often, understanding that all humans have inherent worth.
“If we don’t spend our time on this earth looking out for one another, what are we really doing with our lives?”
Carpenter’s story resonated with Task Force 20 founder Jason Graven. So he booked the Glass City Center, and Carpenter, for the nonprofit organization’s 6th Annual Veterans Awards Banquet at Glass City Center on Saturday, Sept 12. While the banquet has always hosted a speaker, this is the first time for a Medal of Honor recipient, Graven said.
“It’s quite impressive who he is as a person. He is the epitome of what it means to be of service to others,” Graven said. “Kyle is the youngest living recipient of the Medal of Honor. He’s coming across the country to speak here. I think it’s a big deal.”

Carpenter will speak for 30 to 45 minutes and open the floor up for Q&A. The evening will also include the presentation of three awards: Veteran of the Year, Civilian of the Year and Veteran Organization of the Year. The Veterans Award Banquet is an opportunity to celebrate the efforts of individuals and organizations supporting veterans, Graven said.
Graven, an Army veteran who served in Operation Iraqi Freedom, formed the nonprofit Task Force 20 a decade ago as a way to combat the rising veteran suicide rate. At the time, more than 20 veterans a day were lost to suicide. As Graven got back into going to the gym, he found that not only was he losing weight and getting into shape, but he was building confidence, forming friendships and improving his mental health.
“I thought, ‘This is working for me. Why wouldn’t it work for others?’ I just wanted to help people get healthy like I had. To stop the bad thoughts. At the end of the day, we’re a suicide prevention program,” Graven said.
Collaborating with area gyms, donors and veterans, Task Force 20 has provided more than 350 one-year gym memberships in the past 10 years.
“I’m extremely proud of what we’ve been able to do in the last 10 years. When I look at the big picture, I see a lot of people’s lives affected in big ways.”
While the suicide rate among veterans has decreased to 17.6, that’s still too many, Graven said. His goal for the next 10 years is to have more of a national presence and to help another 350 veterans live a healthier life. Partnerships with veterans organizations and supporters make that possible.
“We believe that to really attack the veteran suicide epidemic and get those numbers lower, everyone needs to work together in the community to achieve that goal,” he said.
Every year, TF20 collaborates with partners to present its annual Operation: Stronger Together 5k and Gaven A. Smith Veteran Resource Event, and is working on the Lasting Cost of War Memorial and a Veterans parking space project.
This is the sixth annual Veteran Awards Banquet. Doors open at 5 p.m. with a cash bar and social hour followed by dinner at 6 p.m. Carpenter will take the stage at 7:15 p.m., followed by awards. Tickets are $95 per person. For information, visit tf20.org.



























