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From Idol to Idiot: One man’s journey bringing Green Day’s hit songs to Toledo on March 2.

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‘American Idiot’ will be at Stranahan Theater March 2. Photo courtesy Quincy Kreps.

In 2004, Green Day released the song “American Idiot,” a song criticizing the state of the United States under then President George W. Bush.

“When it was written, it was that post 9/11, Bush era with sort of high paranoia and fear with all the propaganda being spit out,” cast member Carson Higgins said.

The song appeared on the album of the same title along with hits “Boulevard of Broken Dreams,”

“Holiday” and “Wake Me Up When September Ends.” The rock opera went on to win the Grammy

Award for Best Rock Album and, five years later, was made into a musical by Michael Mayer, known for “Spring Awakening.”

“‘American Idiot’ felt so complete to me,” Mayer said in an interview with RollingStone magazine. “[It] has a huge emotional arc. There was an amazing narrative that was, at times, perplexing and ambiguous, but also so full of possibilities with a multitude of voices. Some of the songs – I heard them as dialogue.”

The show will rock into the Stranahan Theater, 4645 Heatherdowns Blvd., at 3 and 7:30 p.m. on March 3. The show is 90 minutes with no intermission.

“It’s the most physically demanding show I think you could even be in, apart from Cirque du Soleil,” Higgins said.

Higgins said the production has a story arch and characters, more like a musical than a concert. The show follows a group of suburban youths unhappy with the state of their home in Jingletown, USA, and makes their way to city life. The show deals with pregnancy, drugs and war.

St. Jimmy, played by Higgins, is a drug dealer character from the album’s sixth track. The role was once played on Broadway by Melissa Etheridge, “The Voice” contestant Tony Vincent and Green Day’s own Billie Joe Armstrong.

“He’s very much the rock star of the show,” Higgins said. “There’s a whole musical going on, I like to think, and then all of a sudden it’s the St. Jimmy show every once in a while.

“Literally, he comes out and he’s just very exciting and in your face,” Higgins said. “He kind of gets to break the fourth wall every once in a while … what’s not to like? I get to wear these awesome costumes and come out and sing some badass songs.”

Higgins has always been a fan of Green Day; the first album he’s ever owned was their 1994 release “Dookie.”

When “American Idiot” came out, Higgins said he remembers listening to the album, while delivering pizzas, thinking it would make a good musical.

“The second song on the album is ‘Jesus of Suburbia,’ and it’s like a nine-minute song. I was listening to it and I was like ‘God, this should be on a stage,’” Higgins said.

Higgins has been in the cast since 2012, working his way up from the ensemble to his current role. He’s traveled all over the world, including across America, Europe and Japan.

Some may notice Higgins, from Malibu, California, as a contestant from “American Idol,” who then-judge Steven Tyler, from Aerosmith, said about him “if we bottled your fire, we could light all of LA.”

“At the time, I was more nervous to be in front of J. Lo because she was so strikingly gorgeous,” Higgins said. “I had a crush on her when I was younger.”

Higgins got the idea to audition for the show from the kids at a beach camp he worked at as a counselor.

His goal was to just have his audition aired on television so the kids could see it.

“So when I went, they just kept saying yes,” he said. “I never, in a million years, thought I was going to make it into Hollywood week.”

He is glad he did “American Idol” because it opened doors for “American Idiot.”

“It taught me a lot about myself,” he said.

Tickets for the show start at $28 and are available online at theaterleague.com and stranahantheater.com, by visiting the box office or by calling 419-381-8851.

Higgins said the message of the show resonates with people of all ages, given the mature content.

“By the end of the show, what I found personally and [by] talking to people who’ve seen [it], they’re really kind of taken aback in the fact that the message winds up being that America is whatever you want it to be and you have to fight make it what you want it to be,” Higgins said. “It isn’t necessarily the

America that was sold to us when we were younger. This cookie-cutter, white picket fence American family is a minority and a rarity now-a-days … America has changed forever post 9/11.”

Leadership Toledo aims to nurture new generations of servant leaders

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A group of adult Leadership Toledo members participate in a team-building and thought exercise. Photo courtesy Leadership Toledo.

Perhaps some of us are born leaders, but even those who seem to be genetically predisposed to leading others must undergo a nurturing process. Leadership Toledo has made it its mission to provide that service, from youth and continuing into adulthood.

The organization has become known for its programs like Youth in Philanthropy Encouraging Excellence (YIPEE), Youth Leadership Toledo and Students in Action, as well as Community Leadership Toledo (its adult program) and its annual fundraiser Restaurant Week Toledo.

This year’s adult program is currently in the midst of a nine-month series of classes, tours and brainstorming sessions aimed at giving adults of all ages the necessary tools and knowledge to serve their communities.

Leadership Toledo Executive Director Dave Schlaudecker, a former lawyer for Owens Corning, has been with the organization for 13 years. He described the humble beginnings and transformation of the small group that is now a formidable community presence.

“Leadership Toledo started over 35 years ago, when a group got together at a restaurant, ‘My Brother’s Place,’ above Trinity Episcopal Church on Adams Street, where our offices are located today,” Schlaudecker said. “They thought that there should be some opportunity to get together and learn more about Toledo, and figure out how to serve it.”

The lunches turned into half-day sessions, and by 1980, it developed into a full-on “servant leadership” program called ToledoScape, which was later renamed Leadership Toledo.

“That turned into a bit of the model that other cities used in taking participants through eight- or nine-month programs that expose them to all kinds of different aspects of the region, [like] the history of the region, issues facing the region, things that need help, areas that work well, poverty and criminal justice,” Schlaudecker said.

The organization started looking for those who wanted to become involved in the community, especially outside of the political arena.

Schlaudecker noted that Leadership Toledo seeks out those who want to become involved with nonprofit organizations, raise funds and look for opportunities to volunteer for community projects.

“A hallmark of what the program has with it is the opportunity for each classmate to be involved in a project in the community that would benefit a not-for-profit,” he said.

Schlaudecker said Leadership Toledo has served 80 different nonprofits over the years, helping with issues like identity, branding and mergers.

“It teaches [people] how to work with a nonprofit, and to work with each other in a very different setting.”

In the hierarchy of a nonprofit, everyone is essentially equal, so one must find ways to become a “servant leader” of the organization, Schlaudecker said.

Testimony

Anthony Ruth, area director for N2 Publishing, initially became acquainted with Leadership Toledo by consultation.

“They needed some help with some things, and they reached out to me, because I had some expertise with printing and a few other things,” he said. “Long story short, I fell in love with what they were doing, and I decided to become a member of the 2013-14 class.”

Ruth said that, though he was excited to jump into the program, he was not sure what he was getting into.

“I literally had no clue. As soon as I found out what they were really about, I couldn’t wait to get involved, primarily because I love Toledo. I’m passionate about Toledo.”

Ruth’s passion for his city helped him recognize the importance of programs like Leadership Toledo.

“If we support an organization like Leadership Toledo, and we put sincere energy into educating our business leaders through this program, in the long term, it can really change the psychological dynamic that is in this town.”

Ruth added that the “energy is right,” but there is still a need for investors to take Downtown and the city to the next level.

“We need to get over that hump to where we can get significant investors. We do have some who have already put their money where their mouth is and done what they can do to redevelop real estate into beautiful establishments. But on a large scale, we’re still not there yet.”

“Hopefully, the youthful energy that has come in as of late will continue to get over that hump,” he added. “Leadership Toledo, in my opinion, plays a vital role to achieve that end.”

Ruth cited the “Servant Leadership” session as one of his favorites so far.

“Instead of dictating from the top down how things are going to be, it really takes a new approach and asks the question, ‘How much more successful can we be as a community and in our personal lives, if we look at leadership as an opportunity to serve those who support us?’”

Sarah Beavers, executive director at the Eastern Maumee Bay Chamber of Commerce, found out about Leadership Toledo through a fellow board member, who invited her to a leadership breakfast.

The encounter prompted some research and opinion-gathering, and soon, Beavers asked the Chamber to back her in attending this year’s class.

“My overall impression is that this organization is such a well-oiled machine,” said Beavers, a member of this year’s class. “Dave and his staff all have such a wealth of knowledge that is immeasurable.”

Beavers said that, like Ruth, her favorite session was “Servant Leadership.”

“I found it very insightful, seeing that I report to a board,” Beavers said. “I learned so much of how I need to communicate in order to make my board and organization thrive.”

Beavers added that Leadership Toledo provides benefits for participants on both a professional and personal level.

“Professionally, it is helping me guide my chamber in the direction I feel is needed. It has given me ideas that I never would have considered prior, and has inspired me, personally, to want to give back as much as I can.”

Aaron Phillips, a program director at the Ability Center of Greater Toledo, saw Leadership Toledo as an opportunity to reach out and develop new relationships in the community.

“I was actually looking for networking opportunities, and after a meeting at home, and then looking them up online, I submitted my application, and was accepted as their first student for the class of 2013-14.”

Phillips said that his initial goals for the program were quickly reached.

“I thought it was pretty cool. There were enough people in the program that I knew several people in our class, walking in, but I [quickly] made a dozen connections with people I never met before.”

Phillips said he enjoyed the day-long session dedicated to health care because it pertains to his field, but noted another session that benefitted him, personally.

“The Tour of Toledo was a really fun day. We started at the top floor of the Fifth Third Building, and got a visual tour of how some of the neighborhoods in Toledo were created,” Phillips said. “We [also] visited some spots in Toledo that I never even knew existed.”

Schlaudecker said the tour is always among the most popular with participants and one of his favorites as well.

“It is just a fascinating day. We talk about the great leaders of our community, and what they did,” Schlaudecker said.

The tour highlights some of the original great Toledo families like the Secors, the Trilbys and the Stranahans, as well as lesser-known families like the Gunckels, who started the Boys & Girls Club of Toledo.

“We bring that around to current people who are doing wonderful things in the community,” Schlaudecker said. “Those are the kinds of things that open people’s eyes to what is going on right now.”

Class participants will also get the chance to experience a poverty immersion program provided by the United Way.

“You get a huge feel for the desperateness of the super-poor, without it being over-dramatic,” Schlaudecker said. “It is reality based.”

Schlaudecker added that the variety of topics tackled in Leadership Toledo sessions are part of what makes it effective.

“At the end of the day, what I want is for a class member to say, ‘Wow, I really learned something about Northwest Ohio, our problems, our opportunities, and this is somewhere I want to put my efforts into,’ or maybe they don’t, but they will after the next class,” Schlaudecker said. “That is why we try to offer a really broad spectrum in our programming.”

Youthful Energy

According to Phillips, friendships and connections have been a great benefit of the adult program, but the youth program, which follows a similar curriculum, is a primary strength of Leadership Toledo.

“That is really what the program is about — supporting the youth leadership program, and meeting some of the talented students, spending the day with them, and having great conversations with them.”

Schlaudecker was also eager to point out the importance of the youth program.

“About 17 years ago, the people in Leadership began to ask, ‘If this program is working so well for adults, shouldn’t we be trying to do something for the youth?’” he said.

After an initial rejection, it was picked up the next year, and soon a leadership development program for sophomores in high school evolved.

“[Sophomores] are acclimated to high school, and if we hit them [then], we still have two more years to help them influence their high school,” Schlaudecker said.

One of the strengths of the youth programs is they are tuition free, open to any student from any high school associated with the program. Annual fundraisers like Restaurant Week Toledo help cover the costs.

Participating high schools nominate students by various processes, then send names to Leadership Toledo. Names are then reviewed and one or two students from each school are invited to apply. Each year, Leadership Toledo selects 50-55 spots from 34 different area high schools.

“We’re not looking, necessarily, for the president of the student class,” Schlaudecker said. “We love to get those who have so much potential, and they haven’t quite hit it yet, so we can help bring them up to the next level.”

Schlaudecker said that this type of nurturing will help to form a new generation of servant leaders in Toledo.

“All this is based on service to our community.”

For more information about Leadership Toledo, visit leadershiptoledo.org.

Vitucci voices confidence in interim Walleye coach Watson

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Nick Vutucci, center, announced Feb. 25 he was stepping down as head coach of the Toledo Walleye. Dan Watson, left, will be interim head coach for the rest of the season. Vitucci will remain with the franchise in a to-be-determined role, said team president and GM Joe Napoli, right. Toledo Free Press photo by Sarah Ottney.

For the first time in franchise history, it won’t be Nick Vitucci behind the bench for the Toledo Walleye when the team returns to the ice March 1.

The head coach announced Feb. 25 he was stepping down, effective immediately, but will stay on with the hockey club in a position to be determined.

Joe Napoli address media during a news conference Feb. 25. Toledo Free Press Photo by Sarah Ottney

Assistant coach Dan Watson will take over as interim head coach for the remainder of the season. A new assistant coach has not been named.

The Walleye have struggled this season, compiling an overall record of 16-31-3 and currently in an eight-game losing streak. Vitucci has been head coach of the Walleye since the franchise started in 2009. He also coached the Toledo Storm from 2003-07.

Vitucci’s all-time coaching record is 289-262-45. His record with the Walleye is 149-158-32.

“We’ve struggled with finding the right path to get this ship going in the right direction,” Vitucci said during a news conference at Huntington Center on Feb. 25.

“It was my decision,” he said. “A different voice, a different philosophy is something certainly that might be a good thing right now. I care deeply about this organization and the success of it and if it means stepping down for the best of it I was more than willing to do that.”

Vitucci said he has been discussing the possibility for about two weeks with Walleye president and general manager Joe Napoli, who supported Vitucci’s decision.

“Nick is the type of guy [who] when he says, ‘I put the organization first,’ he means that,” Napoli said.

“It’s not an easy answer because there are so many things that contribute to success or failure,” Napoli said. “Nick will shoulder the blame, [but] the fact of the matter is when you look at the body of work, we’ve all contributed to that.”

The two will be discussing during the next few months what Vitucci’s new role with the team will be, Napoli said.

“We’re going to take some time and take a step back,” Napoli said. “Nick has a long list of concepts and ideas that we think could work and we’re going to take a look at those. … What we will do over the next I’d say 60 to 90 days is firm up with Nick’s responsibilities will be going forward.”

The mid-season change allows Watson the chance to demonstrate what he’s capable of while also giving the team an appropriate window to find a replacement in time for recruiting and preparing for next season, said Napoli, who said he started receiving resumes almost immediately after the change was announced.

“This is a highly desirable position in the ECHL,” Napoli said.

Watson said he is “absolutely” ready to take on the role as interim head coach.

“Some coaches are satisfied with being assistants for their entire career. I am not,” Watson said. “I’m ready to dive in headfirst and really show the organization and the players for this 21-game tryout what I’m all about.”

Vitucci said Watson is “more than prepared” for the job.

“Dan’s got a great hockey mind,” Vitucci said. “Dan has done more work in his role than I guarantee you any other hockey assistant coach has done. He’s studied the game, he studies our team, he studies all the opposition, he studies the NHL, he studies everything. I wasn’t kidding when I [said I] think he’s studied more than an entire student body. Now this is an opportunity for him to step forward and be the guy.

“It’s going to be a 21-game learning experience for him too,” Vitucci said. “How he handles situations, how he handles the media, how he handles the referees, how he handles the good and the bad in the locker room. But those are things that you have to experience to be able to really understand it and get a hold of it so this is a great opportunity for him to show his personality that he has — and it’s a demanding one. He’s a stern person so he’s going to expect the most out of the players.”

Watson said every coach has a different philosophy and he plans to tweak a few things. One statistic he’d like to turn around is the team’s position as worst in the league for giving up goals.

“I was a defenseman … so we’re going to be a defensive team,” Watson said. “I want to play fast and make sure we have good puck control, making sure we have guys driving hard to the net. I want to be a team when other teams come in here or we’re on the road, we’re a tough team to play against, every single night.”

Your First Look pregnancy center opens in East Toledo

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Your First Look sonographer and office assistance Brittany Lacourse in the new East Toledo office at 101 Main St. Toledo Free Press photo by Christie Materni.

A new center has opened its doors on Toledo’s East Side with the mission of helping women who are facing unplanned pregnancies.

Your First Look East Toledo Women’s Center, a program of Heartbeat of Toledo, provides free pregnancy tests, ultrasounds and options counseling to women in need.

Located in the Historic Weber Building on Main Street in East Toledo, the newest branch of Heartbeat’s outreach is looking to serve one of the city’s most at-risk areas for women and children.

Lucas County has one of Ohio’s highest teen pregnancy rates, and more than 25 percent of households in East Toledo are headed by single mothers. The area also had the highest number of referrals for allegations of abuse and neglect to Lucas County Children’s Services.

Pat Todak, the executive director of Heartbeat of Toledo, said she had been scouting out spaces for the new location in East Toledo for months before settling on the Main Street location. She said it was important to find a warm, welcoming location for the center.

“We hear that at other organizations, you’re just a number and you’re not treated like a person. We wanted this to be a quiet, calming place away from the pressures of the outside world,” Todak said. “If I went to a spa, this is what I would want it to look like. We don’t want anything in here that would put subtle guilt on people.”

The new office space includes private counseling rooms, an ultrasound exam room and space for group classes.

Two days a week, the center will offer free pregnancy tests and ultrasounds, as well as options counseling for women who find themselves pregnant.

“Our ultimate goal is to help turn a woman’s fear about her unplanned pregnancy into confidence for the future. Most women have abortions because they area scared and feel alone and unsupported,” Todak said. 

Todak noted that the clinic does not provide referrals for abortions.

“We are a pro-life organization and we don’t hide that fact,” Todak said. “But we find that by treating women with love and respect, and by giving them facts, 87 percent choose life after visiting our office.”

The office does testing for some STDs, and will refer some women for a more complete panel of tests for STDs and STIs.

On other days, Your First Look will host “Earn While You Learn” classes for expectant parents. By attending classes, expectant parents can earn credits that they can redeem for baby clothing, diapers, and other items. Topics for the classes include healthy relationships, empowerment for dads, and other parenting essentials.

“They don’t just cover pregnancy. We start in the first trimester and go all the way through toddlers,” Todak said. “We want to go beyond crisis pregnancy, We want them to be good moms and dads too. The women will get to know other moms in the area, so they have support and can set up things like babysitting co-ops.”

According to Leeann Beach, patient services manager at Your First Look, said the office already had five new patient appointments scheduled. Beach will also be making trips to community locations to reach out to young mothers, including nearby Waite High School.

Heartbeat of Toledo was founded in 1971 by Eleonore Maier and Dr. John Hillenbrand. The pair saw a need for emergency pregnancy centers in both Toledo and across the country, and opened their first center in downtown Toledo. The main Toledo office is now located on Sylvania Avenue near Franklin Park Mall, and Heartbeat International, now headquartered in Columbus, leads more than 1,100 locations worldwide.

The Your First Look East Toledo Women’s Center will be dedicated to Irma Gray Hooker, a Toledo native who was known for her spirit of giving. Her son and his wife, Paul and Margo Hooker, made a substantial contribution to the new office.

Members of the community will have a chance to see the center during its open house and ribbon cutting ceremony on Thursday, March 6 from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m.  The organization will also host a banquet on March 26 at Premier Banquet Hall. Jason Jones, the executive producer of the pro-life films “Bella” and “Crescendo,” will be the guest speaker, and dinner is included. The organization is accepting donations to help continue their work.

Popular UT jazz radio host taking show on the road

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Hugh Ross hosts "The H Factor', a jazz radio show at the University of Toledo student radio station WXUT, popular with listeners of all ages. He will begin a weekly DJ session at Forrester's on the River on Wednesday evenings in March. Toledo Free Press photo by Christie Materni.

A local jazz enthusiast and radio DJ is hoping to help revitalize Toledo’s once-thriving jazz community.

Hugh Ross hosts the jazz radio show “H-Factor” on the University of Toledo’s student station, WXUT. The show airs 2-6 p.m. Saturdays and 4-6 p.m. Sundays.

“H-Factor” offers an eclectic mix of jazz, and according to Ross, all subgenres are represented in one way or another.

“Jazz has too many genres to limit it. There are 27 types of jazz, and I try to play every last one of them. I like to introduce people to different types, so I try to weave it all together,” he said.

“A lot of people think jazz is for old folks, like myself, but I want to introduce young people of all diversities to all types of jazz, and let them make the decision whether they like it or not.”

In addition to his radio show, Ross is working to line up more public appearances to expose jazz to people of all ages, and will begin a weekly DJ session at Forrester’s at the Docks on Wednesdays in March.

Ross’ love of music has been with him all his life. He made the varsity marching band as a freshman at Central Catholic High School, but he was also a talented football player, which forced him to make a difficult choice.

“I remember going to the varsity band leader, and asking him if I could be in the band and still play football, and he said, ‘No.’ I had to make a decision. Music was always in my heart, but I decided to go with football.”

At the time, Ross had been listening to a lot of rock n’ roll, but when he was 16 years old, his sister turned him on to “California Dreaming,” an album by jazz guitarist Wes Montgomery.

“From that point on, I liked jazz, and I’ve been liking it ever since.”

Ross enrolled at UT in the 1970s on a full scholarship, but left school to attend to family matters. It was a decision that would stay with him for years.

“Every time I passed by the university, I’d get this feeling in my gut, like I didn’t finish something,” he said.

He made a promise to his ailing father that he would return to complete the college education he started.

In 2012, Ross made good on that promise, and headed back to UT to work toward a bachelor’s degree in human resource management.

While enrolled in a radio production class, a professor took note of one of his talents.

“He said he liked my voice, and [said] I ought to go over to WXUT,” Ross said.

Ross recalled how, in the 1970s at UT, he would bring his record player to the student union and play music for people.

“That became my passion.”

His passion has now transformed into a dedicated following of Toledo jazz enthusiasts, which Ross noted is a result of supply not meeting demand.

“There’s an undercurrent of jazz lovers in Toledo, but there are not any top stations playing it,” he said.

“[H-Factor] has become so popular, I don’t even know what to think of it — it’s bigger than me. These people are really gravitating toward what I play on the weekends.”

Ross said the variety of music he offers and his on-air improvisation motivates him to keep going, as well as feedback from his listeners.

“One lady, she said I almost got her in trouble with her husband, because she went out for groceries, and she was listening to my show in her car. She said she sat in her car for an hour, because I was jamming so good.

“She asked me to take it easy on her, so she wouldn’t sit in her car at the grocery store for so long.”

At the request of many listeners requesting to meet Ross in person, he decided to pursue something more public, outside of the radio booth.

“I’m a private person, but I realize that once something takes off like this, your privacy has to kind of take a back seat.”

He approached Forrester’s on the River about setting up a weekly DJ gig. Ross and the restaurant owners came up with a fitting time slot, during Forrester’s “Wine Down Wednesdays,” held 5-9 p.m. every Wednesday.

Forester’s owner Joy McQueary said she and her husband, John, had been running a special on Wednesdays already, and recognized that Ross could add some flavor to the evening.

“In the bar area, we do half-price appetizers, and half-off glasses and bottles of wine,” McQueary said. “We’ve been doing it throughout the winter, and [Ross] came in and approached us, and we thought, ‘Well, why not tie it in together? We’ll do Wine Down Wednesdays, and play a little jazz.’”

Ross is eager to see what kind of response the collaboration will receive.

“I love the ambience. I’m going to play some cool jazz.”

McQueary said if things go well during the initial run in March, Forester’s will continue to book Ross into the spring and summer.

In addition to the Forrester’s gig, Ross said he will continue to seek out new possibilities and venue to serve jazz to Downtown Toledo. He acknowledged some of Toledo’s suburbs have venues that offer quality jazz music, but said that the backdrop of Downtown Toledo could bring back interest in hosting a jazz fest there, much like the popular, but now defunct Art Tatum Jazz Festival.

“I want to bring that back, if I can generate the buzz,” Ross said. “Someday, that’s my dream.”

The Toledo jazz community has suffered a series of blows during the past few years. Jazz club Murphy’s Place closed in May 2011 after the death of co-owner Joan Russell. Famed jazz pianist Claude Black, a Murphy’s Place regular, died in January 2013. In November, health issues forced Suzanne Carroll to end “The Jazz Brunch,” her Sunday jazz show on 101.5 The River, after 18 years on the air.

The Art Tatum Jazz Heritage Society still hosts “Jazz on the Maumee” on Wednesday evenings at the Grand Plaza Hotel Downtown.

When asked about the appeal of jazz, Ross enthusiastically cited its versatility.

“You can dance to it, you can party to it, and you can make love to it,” he said. “You can do anything to the jams I’m playing.”

Oatis: Standing up for the rights of the adopted

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As the birth/first mother of an adult daughter adopted in Ohio after Jan. 1, 1964, I am grateful for the people who’ve worked hard to restore the right of adopted people to their original birth certificates. That right was restored Dec. 19, 2013, when Ohio Governor John Kasich signed the Adoptee Access to Records Bill.

The State of Ohio sealed – or closed – adoption records in 1964, which meant that anyone adopted after Jan. 1, 1964, had no legal access to his or her original birth certificate while all adopted before that date simply had to request their birth certificates to receive them. The picture for those with no access started to change about 25 years ago when adoptee Betsie Norris, executive director of Adoption Network-Cleveland, began to advocate for adoption reform.

The Bill affects people whose adoptions were finalized from Jan. 1, 1964, through Sept. 18, 1996 — at least 400,000 people in Ohio, Norris said, “the most in any State.” These individuals may begin to receive their records March 20, 2015. There had already been a law in place saying that people adopted after that date had access to their records, unless their birth/first parents stipulated otherwise. Fortunately, according to Norris, “the Ohio Department of Health says very few birthparents have said no.”

The Adoptee Access to Records Bill seems to have given adopted people the inner freedom to search for their birth/first families. Just as birth/first parents often feel searching for their surrendered children is wrong or selfish, it is usual for adopted people to consider it selfish to search for their birth/first parents. According to Norris, since the Bill was signed in December, there’s been an increase in the number of people doing searches.

The State of Ohio’s Adoptee Access to Records Bill is good news for birth/first parents, who, at the time they signed the papers, likely had no idea the state would, years later, prevent their children from finding them. Indeed, the papers that my daughter’s father and I signed included the promise that we would not interfere with her or try to find her. The papers that we signed included no language about preventing our child from finding us.

What reasonable person would disagree that adopted people deserve access to their birth certificates and to the people who brought them into the world? As birthparents’ lives unfolded and our understanding of the nature of things evolved, many of us realized, at the very least, how naïve we’d been to have sent our children to people we did not know. Our babies were not property. They weren’t gifts to people who couldn’t have children. They were – and are – human beings with rights and needs. And, they grew up; they’re no longer adopted children. We can’t go back to change the decisions we made. We can, however, stand up for our adult children to ensure they have access to information and to us.

The decision to request an original birth certificate or to search for a birth/first family is a personal one. Having said that, those of us whose lives are forever touched by adoption are grateful to Gov. Kasich for his support in changing a law that should never have been passed.

A twist some might find interesting: Betsie Norris’ late adoptive father was an attorney and was instrumental in having the records closed in the State of Ohio back in 1964. Years later, having experienced the growth and evolution of his understanding of the nature of things, he supported Betsie in her work to unmake the law he’d helped create.

For more information on the Ohio Bill and/or other news on adoption, please visit adoptionnetwork.org or find Adoption Network Cleveland on Facebook.

Kate Oatis lives in Maumee and is willing to speak with adoptees, birth/first parents and prospective adoptive parents from her perspective as a birth/first mother.

Pounds: A Clarion call

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D. Michael Collins promised his administration would strengthen the city’s focus on local development and investment, and in a very short time he has made that a clear priority.

In addition to the major announcement that ProMedica will move its administrative offices Downtown and make a historic investment in the heart of Toledo, and the Toledo administrative cooperation that led to furniture producer Allermuir U.S. purchasing a 37-acre site in Maumee, there was a quick and collaborative effort with Toledo City Council this week.

Toledo City Council voted unanimously to purchase the 11-floor Clarion on Reynolds Road in the hopes of attracting new businesses to the former Southwyck Mall area.

Collins officials told WSPD that there is interest in a nearby K-mart but the business would only move into the area if the hotel was demolished.

That demolition is expected to cost the city around $800,000; that is an investment in growth.

There is no deal made yet but the fast movement and all-in vote by council demonstrates a so-far smooth and efficient development engine.

There is no question the presence of Matt Sapara is already paying off and it is exciting to see such a firecracker string of successes.

The message to the business community is clear: Toledo is seeking fast growth with as smooth a development process as possible.

That does not mean every deal is going through on the backs of unicorns jumping over rainbows, but it is extremely encouraging to see the initial successes Collins’ administration is facilitating.

If some of that effort and success can be shared with the city’s established development on the international stage, Collins will be on the way to silencing doubters and bringing a fresh and vital attitude to Toledo — just as he promised on the campaign trail.

Kelly: Turning shame of past bullying into positive action

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I’ve shared a lot about my life on the air, and a little more while writing this column. One thing I’ve yet to write about is bullying.

I’ve held back because it’s been in the news a lot, and many people use it as a buzzword. I finally realized I need to tell my story because it may help someone reading.

As host of “The Morning Rush,” I’ve gone to schools and spoken about bullying and how it’s impacted my life. My story was very difficult and embarrassing to tell when I first started to share it. Now I see it as a vehicle to help others.

I have a lot of experience with bullying. My oldest brother was a victim. He was picked on by a large group of kids at his bus stop when he was 13. I never knew anything was going on until I came home from school and my parents told me that he had been taken to a mental hospital. That night will forever stick in my mind, when I learned how powerful bullying can be.

My brother was being physically and mentally bullied at school so often that he decided to try and take his own life. He did not succeed, and I thank God for that every time I tell this story.

When I went to the hospital to see my brother, I was turned away by his doctor. Apparently my brother told them I was partially to blame for his condition. Really? I was 8. How could I be responsible for making someone want to kill himself? I got the answer later when I took part in sessions with my brother’s doctors and my family.

The house I grew up in was physical. I was the youngest of three boys, and I got picked on all the time for being little. I would lash out and try to prove to everyone how big I was. I would hit my brothers and friends. I would call them names and do whatever I could to make sure they knew I wasn’t the weak one.

The damage here is no one ever stopped me. Not my parents — who definitely heard and saw me behave this way. Teachers never said anything, and my friends never told an adult. My behavior continued until I realized it could have cost my brother his life.

One of the first stories I covered at KISS FM was about a kid from Australia who stood up to a bully by picking him up and body-slamming him. He got suspended for it, and it really upset me. I remember saying on air that if someone would have stood up to me, I would have never done the things to the people I had the chance to hurt.

I decided to take that message and team up with anyone who would help. That’s when I was introduced to Dr. Lisa Kovach from the University of Toledo. We have spoken to students about bullying and its effects on young kids and adults. When I tell my story to kids, I always see a look of shock on their faces when I tell them I used to be a bully. That look used to embarrass me because I was ashamed at what I had done, not only to my brother but to the kids I considered my friends.

It’s taken some time, but I’ve turned something I’m not proud of into something I’m more than happy to share. I’ve taken that embarrassment and shame and turned it into a positive by teaching others to take a stand against the bully. You don’t have to meet violence with violence; you just have to have enough courage to tell someone. Hopefully, with my help and the help of others like Kovach, the person you’re telling will know what to do and how to get you help.

This is what I’m encouraging everyone to do. Find something in your life you’ve done wrong and figure out how to right it. It could be as easy — or as hard — as an apology. As long as you take steps to correct mistakes you’ve made, I think you’ll be OK with them.

Sid Kelly is host of “The Morning Rush,” weekday mornings on 92.5 KISS FM.

Schlaudecker: Join us in leading, connecting, growing, serving

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Toledo Free Press readers likely associate Leadership Toledo with one of our most successful and fun annual community events: Restaurant Week Toledo. Since the event first began four years ago, readers have learned much about Leadership Toledo’s 35-year history of inspiring community volunteerism and expanding awareness of community issues.

Dave Schlaudecker

Dave Schlaudecker

Consider the following four words: Lead. Connect. Grow. Serve. For the almost 2,100 Leadership Toledo adult and youth graduates, these four words define the experiences that they received as class members because each learned the pivotal role we play in fostering leadership and development for greater Toledo residents.

Leadership Toledo graduates represent both this community’s veteran and young leaders of today. We are not the new kid on the block; we are respected for both our knowledge of Toledo’s history and traditions and for possessing the insight necessary to help foster resurgence throughout the Toledo region.

Leadership Toledo challenges both adults (Community Leadership Toledo) and youth (Youth Leadership Toledo, Youth In Philanthropy Encouraging Excellence [YIPEE] and Youth Jefferson Awards/Students In Action) to explore what their leadership styles, roles and responsibilities are and how to impact others. These skills help transform their workplaces, their schools and our communities into places that thrive with enthusiasm for charity, service to others and teamwork.

Lead. Connect. Grow. Serve. These words demand action — just like the issues that face our nation. History offers names of many men and women who demanded action. Winston Churchill, Abraham Lincoln and Gandhi: Are these the names that you associate with leadership or are you fortunate, like me, to recall examples of great leaders who exist not just in history books but right in the Toledo area?

When asked to define leadership, I think of a member of one of our earliest Youth Leadership Toledo classes who took what he learned during our programs to Cambridge, Mass., and started a youth philanthropy organization while attending Harvard. He has grown significantly since his high school years and has returned to the greater Toledo community where he stays connected as a volunteer board member for several local nonprofit organizations.

I think of another Youth Leadership Toledo graduate whose commitment to serve and her philanthropic endeavors gained her leadership of her professional fraternity. She continues to serve as a law student at the University of Toledo. I also recall a recent graduate of our adult program who accepted the challenge to help transform a troubled local agency to one of efficiency and stability. It is difficult to limit the number of examples because there are so many and each is as impressive as the next.

Lead. Connect. Grow. Serve. These words define Leadership Toledo and that is how we lead community involvement. The question now is, do you want the experience? Opportunities to join the next Leadership Toledo class in September are limited.

For more information, visit www.leadershiptoledo.org, or call the office at (419) 241-7371.

Dave Schlaudecker is executive director of Leadership Toledo. He can be reached at [email protected].

Beard: Harold Ramis: Nerd icon

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Writer, director, actor — sure, the late Harold Ramis was all these things, but to a generation of nerds only one thing really mattered: He was in “Ghostbusters.” And not only was he in “Ghostbusters,” but in it he developed an icon for nerds everywhere in the lovable-but-warped Egon Spengler. And I once got to put words in his mouth.

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Back in 2010 I had the extreme honor of co-writing an official “Ghostbusters” comic book for IDW Publishing and to play with characters and situations from my favorite comedy film of all time. That was a little bit daunting. I was determined to write them in a way that a reader would hear the actors’ voices in their heads while reading the story — and to do that, I had to channel Bill Murray, Dan Aykroyd, Ernie Hudson and yes, Harold Ramis.

It was Ramis’ character Egon I was most nervous about writing. In Egon, Ramis represented nerds and geeks across the spectrum, though I suspect he wasn’t much of either himself in real life. The beauty of his writing and acting of Egon is that he brought warmth and humor to a character who could have come off as pretty cold and distant. The other Ghostbusters give him a hard time on occasion, but it’s apparent that Egon’s one of the boys. He’s their resident brainiac, sure, but he’s also a little child at times, interested in candy bars and eager to scrap when he feels he’s been wronged. And, to the triumph of nerds, he gets the girl at the end of the movie.

Ramis was a renaissance man, combining writing skills, precise comic timing and a charm and wit most actors would die for. The world will clearly be a less humorous place with his passing, but at least now he can get to the bottom of that pesky poltergeist situation.