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419singles changes dating scene

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Single members attend the launch party of Bar Louie. (Courtesy Photo)

TOLEDO – While Valentine’s Day as a celebration of romance and love comes once a year, a new group for single adults aims to spark those feelings — and more, with an eye to safety — year-round.

419singles arrived on the northwest Ohio social scene with a kickoff party on Feb. 8 at Bar Louie in Perrysburg

“It brings together like-minded singles looking to intentionally date and find a singles community,” said founder Lisa Dunn.

419singles members Tiffany Soto, from left, Fran Kraus, Lisa Lento Dunn and Sara Zaciewski take a selfie during the launch party of Bar Louie. (Courtesy Photo)

To attend upcoming events, a single must apply to become a member and then pay a $45 application fee. “It’s for purposes of vetting and safety,” said Dunn, a Sylvania resident and a local business manager.

She said the goal is to keep events based around singles who have good intentions and to make sure there’s a level of security, especially for women. And while she’s not doing a background check, Dunn said she’s looking at applicants’ social media handles and whether they’re on a sex offender list.

“We want to have some level of quality of those who are at the events,” she said.

She plans to hold three to four events a month, including a monthly happy hour. Some events will be free, and some will have a ticketed cost to cover food, beverages and entertainment. 

419singles for adults 21 and over in about a 60-mile radius of Toledo – hence “419,” the region’s area code. There will also be events based on different age groups, like 50 and over.

For the first few months, Dunn said she’ll review the demographics of applicants to see what groups need to be addressed. “Maybe the LDBTQA+ community,” Dunn said. “We’re open to all.”

Dunn said when she was looking at how singles currently meet, she felt a need for something new, yet old. “Everything is so online-based today. It was time to bring something into our community to get back to meeting in person.

Bumble and Tinder; those are a nightmare,” she said of existing dating applications. “It’s nice to create something where people can actually meet and get to know someone instead of over an app on their phone.

“In general, people have gotten away from doing more meetings in person. It’s better now, but still, people are a little more home bodies. Trying to put yourself back out there and find a partner and other single moms you can relate to, how do you navigate that?

“My hope is to bring people where they can find them. This makes the potential to find partners a little easier,” she said.

Dunn started 419singles in part because of her experiences. “This is unfortunately my second time being single as an adult, not by my choice,” she admitted. “I’ve been through the ups and downs of adult dating. It’s very difficult — even more difficult in a community like Toledo. This is not Chicago or Cleveland. We don’t have a lot of places to go to meet other singles.” 

Tiffany Soto and Megan Vaillant attend the 419singles launch party. (Courtesy Photo)

Dunn said her friends encouraged her to start the app. “My first time around being divorced, I did not have a singles community. I felt isolated. I dived into a relationship that was not right for me. This time around, I feel like I have a solid singles network. Having that community helps.” 

I feel strongly that part of my mission with this is not to just help people find love, but a singles community and a support system. That’s a vital part of being single. When you don’t have that community, you make choices in dating that aren’t the best choices for you.”

Dunn’s project is drawing praise.

“Dating has become very difficult. I know — I have been looking for other ways to meet people outside of dating apps,” Steve Stallard said. “When Lisa explained her idea for 419singles to me, I thought it was amazing because it feels more personal and is geared toward people who are looking to date intentionally.” 

“This gives the Toledo community another option to get out and meet someone face-to-face in a more comfortable environment,” he added.

Speaking about 419singles’ planned events, Lauren Holub said that “sometimes first dates can be scary, so at these events you can come and talk to others and get to know them to see if you have a connection first, instead of just jumping into a first date. Toledo doesn’t have any dating groups or groups for singles that I know of, so it’s also a good way to form a community to meet others who are in the same situation as you, and you can relate to them. 

“Lisa is a good friend of mine and a fellow single mom,” she added. “She has heard my frustrations with dating and putting yourself out there, so what better way to meet others than by giving this a shot?” 

Dunn is happy about the timing of introducing 419singles to Northwest Ohio, and the potential for success. “It’s the perfect time to get people involved, right before Valentine’s Day. I can’t wait to see what happens.”

Details can be found on their Facebook page, and by email at 419singles@gmail.com.

Ohio’s state budget talks, Medicaid

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(Courtesy Photo/Ohio State House)
This story was originally published by Signal Statewide. Sign up for their free newsletters at SignalOhio.org/StateSignals. Statewide is a nonprofit media partner of the Toledo Free Press.

By Andrew Tobias | Signal Statehouse

Gov. Mike DeWine released his budget plan this week. The two-year, $60.9 billion plan is a blueprint for funding basic state operations. But, as always, it’s also a vehicle for state policy changes.

I wrote articles this week detailing DeWine’s proposal to fund the Cleveland Browns’ and Cincinnati Bengals’ stadium projects by doubling taxes on sports betting. I also added context to his plan to spend $50 million on getting schools to bring back driver’s ed programs that largely have shifted to private operators.

There are many other meaty proposals that merit a deeper look, such as his proposal to change the state’s K-12 school funding formula by curtailing funding “guarantees” for school districts with shrinking enrollment. DeWine also proposed creating a new refundable $1,000 per-child tax credit for qualifying families and called for paying for the final two years of the landmark Fair School Funding Plan lawmakers passed in 2021.

More details will be available next week, when the governor is supposed to introduce the full text of his budget bill.

Lawmakers’ budget dealing will likely deflate DeWine’s dreams 

But it’s always worth remembering DeWine’s budget proposal is just that — a proposal. His dreams don’t always become budget reality. DeWine is not especially influential with the GOP-controlled legislature, even though many items of his “children’s agenda” have made it through in the past.

Watch for taxes to be a focus of upcoming budget talks. A key dynamic of budget negotiations during DeWine’s tenure has been his position that the state has cut taxes enough already. That position bumps against the Legislature’s insistence that state taxes need to be cut even more. In the past, the two sides ended up in the middle, where some of DeWine’s programs got funded and the Legislature got its tax cuts.

In this budget, DeWine has proposed some major tax hikes – doubling the state’s gambling tax to fund the stadium projects and a separate big hike on tobacco products to pay for the proposed child tax credit. He also proposed doubling taxes on recreational marijuana to pay for policing and jail services. It remains to be seen whether Republican lawmakers will play ball.

My goal at Signal is to dig into the most important, impactful policies. So let me know if there’s anything you’re wondering about. 

Advocates of Medicaid funding for autism therapy speak out

Ohio’s Department of Medicaid is required to cover Applied Behavioral Analysis therapy, a leading treatment for autism. But providers and advocates say the state isn’t doing enough to provide this treatment for more people. 

The state’s lack of standardized coverage rules leads to a patchwork of regulations that providers say make it hard to get paid. As a result, advocates estimate only 8% of eligible kids on Ohio Medicaid plans are receiving ABA therapy, and most ABA providers haven’t signed up to accept Medicaid, advocates say.

Find out more about this issue in my story here. In it, I talk to families in the real world about how they are affected by ABA therapy, and I discuss the recent steps by the state’s Medicaid department to create coverage rules. 

More jockeying for 2026 governor’s horse race

Wednesday brought a significant development in the ongoing maneuvering ahead of the 2026 statewide elections.

Republican State Treasurer Robert Sprague announced he is dropping out of the governor’s race and instead is running for Ohio Secretary of State. He’s also throwing his support behind Vivek Ramaswamy, who’s expected to officially announce his bid for governor later this month.

The development leaves a less crowded GOP primary for governor, which also features Attorney General Dave Yost, and a more crowded one for Secretary of State, which also features former state senator Niraj Antani. Ohio Sen. Theresa Gavarone of Bowling Green is also thinking about running.

(Update: Secretary of State Frank LaRose, a Republican, announced Thursday morning that he will run for state auditor in 2026.)

Sprague’s decision follows a Friday campaign-finance deadline that shows how much money the various candidates have to work with. Yost reported raising $1 million in the second half of 2024, giving him $2.4 million in the bank. Sprague raised $100,000, giving him $2.1 million. A big chunk of Sprague’s money –  $935,000 –  is a personal loan, which will go further in a lower-profile race if he decides to spend it.

Jon Husted reported having $6 million, the largest campaign bank account of any statewide candidate by far. But now that he’s in the U.S. Senate, he’ll have to figure out how to convert the money into his new federal campaign account.

Other Ohio candidates with sizable campaign bank accounts include Republican Ohio Auditor Keith Faber ($1.7 million), former Republican State Representatives Jay Edwards ($773,000), and Dr. Brian Hambley of the Cincinnati area ($362,000.) Faber is expected to run for state attorney general. Hambley, a Democrat, recently announced a run for Secretary of State. Edwards has yet to announce his political plans. 

Signal Statewide is a nonprofit news organization covering government, education, health, economy and public safety.

The Humorists

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Cartoon by Jerry King.

Historic Wolcott House goes up for sale

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Stephanie and Shawn Kellerbauer, with realtor Todd Schenkenberger, stand In the downstairs dining room. When the Kellerbauers purchased the Wolcott House in 2017, they embarked on an ambitious restoration project that spanned nearly a decade. It’s now for sale.

Story by Hannah Sellers | Photos by Lori King

TOLEDO – When Stephanie and Shawn Kellerbauer purchased the Wolcott House in 2017 from the Lucas County Land Bank, the couple embarked on an ambitious restoration project that spanned nearly a decade.

This arts-and-craft-style home, designed by architect George S. Mills, is over 6,000 square feet. With six bathrooms, six fireplaces, nine bedrooms and two kitchens, this was no simple undertaking for the Kellerbauers.

Stephanie and Shawn Kellerbauer purchased the Wolcott House in 2017 from the Lucas County Land Bank.

“It’s about preserving relationships,” Shawn said as he gestured to a large stained glass window, which casts a blue light that travels down the stairwell wall as the day progresses.

When he and Stephanie drove to Cleveland to acquire the window, Sean said they knew it would be the perfect addition. “We saw through the scary stuff for what it could be.”

Sunlight beaming through a stained glass window casts a shadow on the wall of a stairwell that leads from the first to second floor. Stephanie Kellerbauer bought the window on Facebook Marketplace.
Shawn Kellerbauer talks about this stained glass window they bought. It casts a reflection on the stairwell wall.

The care and love that has gone into this restoration is evident in every refurbished piece. Each mantel, light fixture and tile that was curated with intention comes with a story. One example is the light sconces the couple journeyed 90 minutes to get at an old farmhouse.

“I’ve made a lot of friends on Facebook Marketplace,” Stephanie laughed while sharing about a chandelier she just had to have because it was the perfect match to one already in the home. 

The Wolcott House has an extensive and interesting history that started in 1909, when it was built. Over the years, the home has passed to many prominent community members, including Mary Louise Kassick Wolcott, and Walter Ross, a president of Atwood Automobile Co. It was also the Rest Haven Nursing Home in 1959.

And now, the Wolcott House, located at 424 Winthrop, is about to get a new owner. It went back on the market on Feb. 6, and as of Feb. 11, the owners have not accepted an offer. There has been 10 showings and many inquiries, according to their realtor, Todd Schenkenberger.

Realtor Todd Schenkenberger put up 35 signs throughout the house for visitors to keep their bearings as they tour the six bathrooms, six fireplaces, nine bedrooms and two kitchens and the attic.
Stephanie and Shawn Kellerbauer.

“If a buyer is interested in purchasing this home, they will have to provide a renovation plan, show how they intend to pay for the purchase and renovation, and enter into an agreement like the one the Kellerbauers did,” explained David Mann, of Lucas County Land Bank.

Before the Kellerbauers bought it in 2017, it had sat abandoned for over a decade.

“We would ride our bikes by the house, and one day the Land Bank sign went out front,” recalled Shawn. When he told Schenkenberger, of The Danberry Co. Realtors, about his plans to purchase the Wolcott House, Schenkenberger responded that it was a crazy idea. “It’s neat, but it’s a lot of work.”

Indeed it was, but Schenkenberger now admits he was glad the Kellerbauers moved forward with their vision.

It was no easy task to save this local treasure. After obtaining the original blueprints from the library to ensure historical accuracy, the couple got to work. Their first mission was to remove a 2,000 square foot addition built by the Rest Haven Nursing Home and reframe the back of the home.

The floor plans for the Wolcott House.

“We had to show what the back of the house would look like to get approval. So, Stephanie drew out every single little shingle,” Shawn said.

Over 120 windows were repaired to full functionality. Along the way there were exciting discoveries, like a concealed drawer in a built-in dresser; handwritten notes from the original construction workers hidden beneath wallpaper; and historic artifacts within the walls.

Stephanie and Shawn Kellerbauer found this bottle hidden inside a staircase and decided it belongs with the house.

One of these artifacts was an old glass alcohol bottle from Eagle Saloon, once located on Bancroft and Detroit.

The Kellerbauers were careful to restore all of the intricate inlaid mahogany designs that were disguised under layers of paint. “The stairs were nine months of my life. I think I used a lot of vacation days because I’m out now,” Stephanie said. 

This truly is a new chapter for the famous Wolcott House. The Kellerbauers give thanks to everyone who has contributed along the way and supported their vision of bringing treasures like this home back to life.

Shawn and Stephanie hope the next owner will have a vision of their own and continue to bring the Wolcott House back to its full potential.

“Saving this house and this neighborhood’s history is an enormous win for our community,” Mann said. The Kellerbauers are excited about seeing the home passed to the next person who will love it just like they have.” 

Shawn and Stephanie Kellerbauer talk about construction memories they will cherish.
In honor of the Wolcott House, the Kellerbauers would like to bring attention to the Joseph Wolcott Scholarship, which offers grants of $3,000 to qualified graduates of Toledo Public Schools.

The Wolcott House in Toledo.

The Wolcott House in Toledo.

A pile of wood and other construction and building materials Stephanie and Shawn Kellerbauer acquired to be repurposed. “The attic is the boneyard to store stuff that could be used in the completion,” said their realtor, Todd Schenkenberger.

Stephanie Kellerbauer, with her husband Shawn, holds a piece of window trim inside one of the rooms they were restoring.

This signature is assumed to belong to a building construction worker. It was discovered after removing wallpaper in the laundry room on the second floor behind the kitchen, located above a cabinet.

Cross hatches, a George Mills trademark detail that he included in many of his houses.

The attic.

The gear for the trunk hoist that dates back to 1909. At the time of construction, people traveled with huge steamer trunks that were heavy and took up a lot of space: Another example of a George Mills special.

Todd Schenkenberger stands in main dining room. At the top of the curved window are three leaded glass windows found on marketplace.

A signature was uncovered after removing wallpaper In the downstairs first floor stairwell. Nobody knows who Henry is. “ I hope they don’t paint over the signature .. maybe they can save it with plexiglass,” said realtor Todd Schenkenberger.

A roof is in need of repairing inside one of the six bathrooms.

Photos documenting construction work over the years are displayed on an easel for visitors to view.

Unfinished living room. Dimensions are 14 feet and 7 inches x 16 feet and four inches.

The reception hall. Features include a mahogany beamed ceiling, a favorite of George Mills, and an area fireplace and benches, called an inglenook.

The primary bathroom. Features include a marble walled shower and original wainscotting and flooring. The marble slab is called a rubbing table in the original plans.

A cinephile’s picks of Valentine’s Day flicks

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Love is the most portrayed subject in recorded history. I don’t know the exact statistic, but I’m certain from the mass of songs, books, TV shows and movies we’ve collectively ingested, it’s safe to assume it holds the title. 

It’s because of love that you promise to lasso the moon or wish you owned a gin joint in Morocco. It’ll do crazy things, like break your heart, make you take up prostitution or go on a crime spree with your significant other. 

While those are the more extreme outcomes for falling in love, they constitute a few of the moments included in the proceeding movie list. So, if you’re not in the mood for the wistful schlock, try one of these films and see where your evening takes you. 

Harold & Maude (1971): Even if you’ve never seen it, you’ve very likely heard of it. Bud Cort plays Harold, an affluent, suburban teen fascinated with death. His fantasies, including suicide and matricide, will tickle your fancy if you’re into the darker comedic bend. Ruth Gordon, as Maude, steals the show as the senior citizen who shows Harold the ways of youth he’s yet to find. 

Under the direction of Hal Ashby, the titular characters have a relationship that is closer to the heart than most of us will have in our lives. Along with idiosyncratic films like Midnight Cowboy and MASH, this was where – for a bright and shining moment – America treated its filmmaking seriously. 


Wings of Desire (1987): Berlin, near the fall of the Wall. Two angels float through daily life, staying at an arm’s length, observing, until Damien, played by an ethereal Bruno Ganz, becomes infatuated with a circus trapeze artist (played by Solveig Dommartin). After that, he decides to shed his immortality for the sake of love, coffee and a cigarette with Peter Falk

Wim Wenders’ masterpiece is a symphony to the eyes and ears. It’s a film that demands your attention, embracing you and swooning you into intoxication. As much as we want to be immortal, like Damien, we cannot help but root for him in his calling – that he experiences connection in the purity we all dream it to be. 


Wild at Heart (1990): I have to give thanks to David Lynch in this, his most underrated film and All-American ingredient: The road. 

Two lovers on the run, Luna (a dynamite Laura Dern) and Sailor (Nicolas Cage, in his best performance) escape the law, the scuzz of the Earth and her avenging mother Marietta, played by a manic Diane Ladd. It’s a simple premise. 

But nothing is simple in Lynch’s universe. The asphalt burns the tires but the love between Luna and Sailor burns even hotter. Though stints in jail, murder, a touch of Wizard of Oz and the mischief of the scuzzy Bobby (a disgusting Willem Dafoe) may separate Luna and Sailor, it’s destiny which declares they spend their lives together. 


Belle de Jour (1967): I’ll admit that this one is a long shot. Luis Bunuel films aren’t your typical “romantic” fair, yet this entry questions the nature of love and whether it’s attainable from a character who is alien to it.

Catherine Deneuve plays Severine, a bourgeois wife who has her life planned out in terms of wealth and safety. Is it enough? The question is never answered as Severine ventures into a Parisian brothel.

Fueled by fantasy, but failed by reality, Severine becomes twined into a lover’s quarrel that leads to an attempt on her husband’s life. Yet, at the end of the film, Bunuel leaves you with questions – the mark of a great filmmaker: Is fulfillment possible? Does love lead to martyrdom? Is Severine’s husband really paralyzed? 


In the Mood for Love (2000): This is the best example of “the one that got away.” That isn’t my opinion; that’s a fact across the board. 

Tony Leung and Maggie Cheung are seeking souls separated by class. They cross paths in their shared tenement when they each find out their other half is carrying on an affair…with the other’s loved one. 

Wong-Kar-Wai’s direction is subtle in breaking your heart. You want the characters to break through and embrace, but the most you get is a hand embrace and a whisper into a wall.

I promise you, this film will have you yearning for what might have been. 

Oregon Branch Library reopens

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OREGON, Ohio – After nearly six months of closure due to a water main break, the Oregon Branch Library opened its doors again.

The water damage in August caused significant damage to the building, shutting down the library. Fortunately, the damage was isolated to the building itself, not the library’s catalogue or equipment.

Brooke Cox, the manager of the Oregon Branch Library, thanked the Oregon community for their patience throughout this process of renovation, which included new carpeting throughout the whole library, new electrical systems and new drywall. 

“We really cannot wait for it to look and feel like a library in here again,” she said.

Hours of operation: 9 a.m. to 8:30 p.m. Monday through Thursday; 9 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. on Friday and Saturday; and Sunday; and 1 p.m. to 5 p.m. on Sunday.

The Humorists

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Cartoon depicts a donkey blamed for breaking a flower vase. Man behind counter claims "He did it!!!"

Bad homophone cartoon by Steven J Athanas for the Toledo Free Press.

Why Lake Erie Advocates exited law suit

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Jeff Johnston leads Lake Erie Advocates at the Old West End Festival parade in 2022. (Courtesy Photo/Mike Ferner)

Legal action in Federal Court against the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency (EPA) for failing to do right by Lake Erie is in its seventh year, going on eight.

Lake Erie Advocates (LEA) was the original plaintiff in a suit to force EPA to clean up Lake Erie, first filed in 2017. We withdrew under protest four years later, but according to local news updates on the lawsuit’s new participants, that part of the story has gone down the memory hole. 

When the Environmental Law and Policy Center, out of Chicago, came looking for local plaintiffs so it could have standing to sue the U.S. EPA, all the likely candidates, except LEA, said “No, thank you,” including the city, county, the Ohio Environmental Council, Lake Erie Waterkeeper and the Lake Erie Foundation. 

Maybe it was an intimidating request; I don’t know. But I do know that LEA, then known as Advocates for a Clean Lake Erie, said “YES!” in a heartbeat. There was no cost involved and we hoped something good would result.

For over four years we were active plaintiffs, publicizing the suit at every opportunity and letting the attorneys know, to no avail, of valuable insights we had learned from our research. lronically, that research eventually led us to withdraw as a plaintiff in 2021.

Our initial enthusiasm about the suit was spurred by what looked like real progress cleaning up Chesapeake Bay under the U.S. Clean Water Act. TMDLs (total maximum daily loads), a term that would become familiar in Toledo, were pointed to as the reason oyster beds were returning and other water quality indexes improved.

But the more we learned about the differences between Chesapeake Bay and Western Lake Erie, and the more we learned about what TMDLs would mean in our case, the less optimistic we became.

We learned that:

  • Subsurface drainage, the “field tiles” so ubiquitous in our former Great Black Swamp watershed, are not an issue in the Chesapeake watershed.  
  • When billions of gallons of liquid, untreated animal waste is dumped on farm fields, it quickly hit those subsurface drains and heads straight for the nearest ditch or stream, eventually ending up in Lake Erie.  
  • Hundreds of millions of dollars the state and feds spend on programs, like H2Ohio, are mostly a “See, we’re doing something about the lake” smokescreen. Our research showed that in different parts of the country, those very same methods, such as buffer strips, no-till and cover crops, had uneven results at best, and, at times, even made the problem worse. And those methods were the majority of what the Ohio EPA wrote into the TMDLs for Lake Erie.
  • There’s a vast difference between Total Phosphorus (TP) and Dissolved Phosphorus (DP) when determining success or failure of H2Ohio programs. The Ohio EPA planned to measure success based on reductions in TP, something that meant little to politicians or even the attorneys in the lawsuit at first, but is of utmost importance to the lake. 
  • Factory “farming” condemns some 30 million confined animals in our watershed to a living hell, regardless of whether the lake can be improved. If one cares about other living things, this fight is over more than just water quality.

After four years of active support for the lawsuit, LEA came to the conclusion that we could no longer be a plaintiff in something that would require us to declare victory over what would be a mirage. We withdrew, explaining why in this December 2021 news release and in this Channel 13 clip from the news conference.

Any of the above points would be appropriate to include in news updates, but the dominant narrative of Lake Erie will not allow it. The lawsuit, the H2Ohio budgets, statements of elected officials and most environmentalists are all about “how can we fix this industry’s environmental problems?”

Nothing outside that frame is allowed in the picture; certainly not a statement that there is no “fixing” this industry, that we need to return to time-tested methods of raising animals in more humane and sustainable ways. Until 1995, there were no factory “farms” in our watershed and shoppers never once found empty shelves in the milk, egg and meat departments.  

If you say current law is incapable of fixing the problem, it’s like daring to say the king has no clothes. The charade and the expense must continue. The Lake Erie Bill of Rights was an attempt to move beyond current law, but it was squashed by a corporate-sponsored lawsuit the day after Toledo voters approved it overwhelmingly in February 2019. 

Extending legal rights to nature so it is not considered simply property to exploit is a necessary concept that may never arrive in time.

Factory “farming” is a method of raising livestock that has been researched and developed with our tax dollars and continues to be propped up by them. It is killing Lake Erie, destroying family farms, confining millions of animals in lifelong cruelty and incubating the next pandemic … but it must continue because, well … because it’s now part of the system. 

The guardians of reality in the press, the courts and government agencies allow the debate to go only so far. Only certain questions can be asked. Somehow we must live with this madness and figure out how to make it a little less harmful. You can bet that if the lake didn’t turn green every summer we would still be in denial.

As the lawsuit grinds on with plaintiffs who initially declined to join it and more who’ve recently piled on, Lake Erie Advocates will continue to tell the public all the costs of a system we had absolutely no voice in creating.

The salvation of the lake and the animals will happen only if enough people care. As one of our banners in the Old West End parade said a few years ago: “Our lake waits for people to wake.”